Everyone feels happy, everyone feels fear, and, of course, everyone feels angry sometimes. People have different ways of expressing anger, and the zodiac sign is also a clue to find out how each individual expresses their anger.
For instance, Scorpio will give the silent treatment, Sagittarius will hang out with friends, and Virgo will focus on a brand-new project.
Wait…have you ever seen a Capricorn mad before?
If then, is it hard to deal with Capricorn anger?
Let’s discover in this article!
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How to Deal with an Angry Capricorn?
Individuals born under Capricorn zodiac sign rarely explode in anger.
In reality, the person who is mad at you will be quite reserved in their approach of showing that they are angry. Influenced by Capricorn characteristics, they, in most case, will ignore you and do things that may seem rude to you.
Practical and composed, they don’t easily get mad unless being pushed emotionally. Once their anger can’t be controlled behind the hard exterior, the Capricorns will outburst, shout, and cause such a scene that may shock others around.
They only get provoked when their personal lives are operated unchecked and limitless. Normally, they are more prone to depression than anger, but never think of pissing them off to the point of real anger.
Getting a Capricorn to forgive you is not easy!
Each time they feel angry is a different story and you need time to understand the whole situation. The Goat is all about trust, so when you hurt them or break their faith, you could lose them forever.
If they get mad at you, that means they care deeply about you. Thus, it’s a big deal once the Capricornians are truly hurt by someone they really love and respect – it might lead to depression, isolation, and a loss of trust with that person.
What if they do forgive you?
The answer is it won’t really be the same for both sides.
They won’t ever let themselves forget as they don’t want to be hurt again.
When a Capricorn Man is Angry with You?
Normally, your Capricorn male is the most often reserved and mind-numbingly mystifying person. But, no matter how reliable and patient he is, he will probably get angry at certain times.
Does he simply let you know? Or does he build it inside until it explodes out?
The way the Capricorn guy express his anger is determined by his zodiac sign.
You might not intend to annoy or piss off a Capricorn; nonetheless, it can happen easily or even on accident.
Tips to know when a Capricorn man is mad
Anyone who has ever dated this man, lived with him, or has a Cappy family member will agree: once he is mad, he can be very fierce. Unexpectedly, the man with this zodiac sign has the longest fuse.
Wondering if he breaks things and stomps around? Definitely!
How this guy acts when mad?
He takes anger very seriously; usually, he does not express it unless pushed to his limit. In addition, he will say you’ve disappointed him rather than displaying how angry he is with you.
Capricorn man can smash whatever is handy, and might cut you with criticism. When he is driven to have an outburst, it’s so out of character that he shocks everyone around. If your Cap is mad at you, he will either be quite reserved in the approach of showing he is angry, or come out and say it straight forward.
Tips to cope with your angry Capricorn man
First of all, you need to know what makes your Cappy mad.
If he feels pissed off, chances are you – too focused on his flaws, not appreciating any of his opportunities, or too indifferent to not recognizing why he’s hurt. Pride is everything to this man; that’s why you should not make him embarrassed.
He gets really quiet and thinks everything over; yet, when the anger keeps building up, why can’t he explode? So, what to do when a Capricorn man is mad?
Instead of letting him cool off, it’s better for you and him to have a direct conversation.
He can be talked into reason, but admitting fault and apologizing goes a long way. Still, one thing about Capricorn man is that he will always come around after he thought everything over, and apology for his wrong doing.
About signs of a mad Cap, well, it’s his way of signaling you to stop being so rude. He does not express his anger physically or verbally, rather he gives you obvious signs like usually ignoring you or staying quiet. If you ever have a Capricorn angry with you, you will notice he acts cold and doesn’t behave like himself to you.
Take a note of this: he hates to be treated as last priority. If you apologize and be sincere about it, he will forgive you.
Most people think most Capricorn men are dull and boring.
In fact, they aren’t going to open up when feeling uncomfortable. They also talk a lot if having someone else share a lot in common with them, or share the same opinions about life in general and in deeper aspects.
To handle a Capricorn man when mad, just make him feel welcomed, and not judge, or at least respect him in the same way he respects you.
Is Ignoring Capricorn Man a Good Idea to Bring Him Back?
Suddenly your Capricorn partner becomes cold and ignores you.
What to do when a Capricorn man is upset?
Interrupting him with tons of calls and messages, should you? Or simply pulling him away like the way he did to you? Do you think ignoring a Capricorn man is a good idea in this situation?
As a Capricornian, probably I can help you solve your questions and understand your sensitive partner more.
Most Capricorn males usually are serious and do think deep into things.
When we ignore someone, it could be either one of the two options – we are mad or we are trying to move on.
If your guy pays no attention to you but still have a thing for you, his ignoring signs possibly mean ‘play hard to get‘ . You could do something that has hurt his pride, and he could be angry; perhaps he doesn’t know how to handle the situation but ignoring you.
In case he feels like there’s nothing between you and him, he will back off and get hurt, yet not wanna be involved anymore. At the end of the day, all he has to do is to protect her heart.
In the relationship, when your Capricorn man suddenly distant from you (article B), do NOT pull away or try the ignore thing because you may lose him forever. Be his good friend as well as his understanding lover.
Everything will come into place with time if it means to be.
Reasons Capricorn man would ignore you
Instead of keeping your distance from Capricorn guy, it’s much better to find out the possible reasons that he could pull you away. When he ignores you, does it mean he doesn’t like you? Or could it mean something more like he’s hurt?
I can tell you that; if your lover is ignoring you, then you already did things to hurt his feelings. We, Capricorns, stay extremely true to our emotions and are very sensitive, despite the fact we hide well.
Do you want to be forgiven?
Sincerely apologize and let your partner how you feel (why don’t you have a frank talk?). Be open and honest, as well as show him how much you wish to be with him.
Well, he definitely loves actions!
Though he could ignore you first, do not wait for him to say the apology first as it might never happen. The Capricorn man is old-fashioned; that’s why he often refuses taking the initiative role.
Be an empathetic woman and tell him how you really feel regarding your feelings.
Things to remember when dating the Capricorn male
When dating with a Capricorn, you have to be patient.
Accustom yourself to this man’s disappearing acts. When it comes to love, he needs alone time to think and process all the stresses and issues. Give him space and freedom, since he must spend a lot of time recharging the energy, and he prefers doing it alone.
This guy will come back to you whenever he’s ready. Of course, this is not fair to you and often makes you frustrated, but it’s how he operates.
Slow down your communications with him and check on him once in a while if you want; don’t ask him ‘what’s wrong?’ Make him know you are always by his side instead whenever he looks for you.
Generally, he needs a feeling of security.
Final Words
When a Capricorn is mad, they become authoritative. Rather than saying they are angry at you, they will declare that you have disappointed them badly. They may try to disengage themselves to prevent getting provoked even more.
At the end, they may decide not to be friend with you anymore.
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Can someone help me please
A capricorn man proposed me on the valentine day
He is my best friend so I excepted his proposal
Before I tend to reject everyone I even rejected a boy in front of him in the class which we attend together
It was my first time being in a relationship
And first time to fall in love
When the feeling of love started to devlop inside me so I felt threatened before I used to bileave that I can never fall in love and no one can make me fall in love
And I dumped him and told him that we can still be friends
But after that I happened to know that I was in love and I am truly in love
That was so hard for me to dump him like that
But I showed him that iam super happy
And doesn’t care at all , but it’s only me who know of a truth
After some time he came to me as a friend
And discussed with me why I did that
I as I was showing him that I don’t care and super happy
So I lied to him
But it’s his fault he just once again have to say I love you then I will reveal everything to him
But it does happen , he does again said to me I love you
But due to some reason I wasn’t be able to told him anything
It’s been one month since than and I wasn’t be able to face him
I still feel him
I can’t get him out of my mind
We barely are in one month of relationship
In which all we can do was just talk so long and long with each other
About each and every topic
He even sometimes protected me from the girl who are jealous of me and always being mean to me.
I don’t know what to do now
how was he feeling
what he will do now
I still remember those movement’s when we laught , eat , and play together
I am a Pisces women
I don’t know what to do now
Can someone help me please
Dear Aishwarya,
Capricorn men use wordplay, double meanings, sarcastic remarks, self pity and if none of this works to make you feel bad they just shut up until they get over it, but they will never forget and somehow find a way to “repay” you although they will always play the saint.
Be ready to apologize if not at least humour them and say sorry. It will get them back to normal the fact that you can annoy them shows they care for you otherwise they are never bothered with petty things.
Good luck!
Can someone help me??!
I was in love with a Capricorn guy, after my junior clg I confessed it to him. He said ok… We used to text each other with calls once in a blue moon as we were far from each other for our professional degrees. I loved talking to him. But for a couple of days he used to talk and then disappear for weeks, again come back talk and again disappear. He was my school mate my junior college mate. Now there have been 4 years, he still does the same thing. He’s very shy, doesn’t open up, is very sarcastic. I’m sure about myself that I can pretty read people but I’m not able to read this person. I’m a libra. He’s weird, and I don’t get what to do. I have a habbit to make jokes and fun but I feel that he feels bad even for the jokes i crack. I am in love with him. I don’t want to loose him. What should I do now?
Hi dear,
Capricorn likes to analyze and make plans. Without them, it feels incomplete. In other words, he seeks to partner with certain moral virtues, not for certain physical attributes. In love, desire a stable and strong partner with which it can be proud. True, neither is he morally infallible. It can hide behind their scruples and ideals, but also can be a lot more relaxed than it looks.
Love is a serious business to Capricorn. Love for Capricorn is an exchange of emotions that gives mental and physical satisfaction and security. When they love, they look at the person as their family. A Capricorn will often mask their feelings, in fear of exposing too much of themselves. They may give the impression that they are not interested, however when you get to know them they can be really warm and caring.
Sincere
Hi. I need some insight. A few months ago I met a Cappy man who (I occasionally work with-he’s a doctor and I’m an X-ray tech) gave me very intense eye contact. The kind I couldn’t look away from, but felt like forever had went by after snapping out of his stare. I looked down and smiled then walked away from him. A few weeks went by until I saw him again. I wasn’t paying much attention to my surroundings until he came over to me unexpectedly and caught me off guard by trying to make light conversation with me about an X-ray I just took. I couldn’t tell if he was “flirting” with me or not and I’m naturally shy until I know someone better, so I didn’t say anything and stood there frozen in disbelief that 1) he came up to me 2) scared that I would get hurt if I went along with whatever was happening as I have put myself out there before and gotten hurt. That same day I ran into him one other time and he just stared at me. I stared and said hey which he responded with a hey. No smiling on either of our parts as I was trying to read him. Anyway, he walked passed me with his head and eyes down not saying a word. A few more weeks went by and I came across him again in the same place of work. This time it was different though. When I noticed him staring at me he looked away with his head up and nose in the air. The rest of that day he basically ignored me when I’d see him, but I noticed he would linger around where I would be, he just wouldn’t look at me. There was a moment when I found myself staring at him looking at vitals on the computer screen and I could almost see a slight smirk/smile go across his face like he knew I was staring at him. That same night I went outside to make a phone call and he happened to be leaving minutes later so I stopped talking to the person on the phone and waved at him with a slight smile. He greeted me with the same. I then proceeded to ask him how his ankle was (as he had hurt it the first time I met him) with a smile and eye contact. While walking to his car he smiled with wide eyes and said “it’s doing better, but I still have a limp” as if he was being playful. I told him I hoped he has a goodnight and he said the same to me. I haven’t seen him at my work since that night and that was at least a month ago now. Did I make him mad or possibly do something wrong? What should I do if I do see him again? Does our last interaction show that he still cares for me or is he just done, if he even cared for me to begin with? I don’t know how to read him exactly, but I would like to know more about him if he is still interested, but I don’t want to come off as seeming desperate. As I’m not the desperate type. Just very curious of people who seem mysterious and this guy is definitely that. Please get back to me as I’d love to know more insight on my situation and cappy men in general. Idk if it makes a difference, but I’m a Sagittarius.
Hi Brandi,
Men and women are wired completely differently.
I believe what’s happening here is that he likes you and loves you but, he doesn’t know what girls need constant attention and commitment.
A man who keeps showing love and keeps giving attention to a women is a man who knows what women want in a relationship.
He just doesn’t understand that. I guess that’s all. He doesn’t know that you need more time from him (commitment). You guys need to step in each others shoes to understand each other. So if you understand what you guys need you can come to compromise most of the time. He needs to understand and so do you.
Sincere
I am absolutely in love with a Capricorn with Virgo moon, I attract Capricorn energy a lot, we have a few of Pluto contacts, we are both obsessed but I have a Sag Sun and Scorpio moon and I am volatile when I don’t get my way or when I am restricted or if my feelings are hurt and I wanted a relationship he doesn’t want one at all. I hurt his feelings at first and it’s been down hill. I blow up when he disappears and reappears and wants sex and I give him but them he forgets me again, I think he has given up on a relationship because I don’t got his bill anymore and but he is still obsessed and just want to get over it, he says I make him crazy when I tell him how I feel and I thought it was a passing attraction. Now I feel it’s been a year and it’s an abyss of toxic power plays and I can’t let him go, and he can’t either on his own terms. Just no relationship. I don’t know what to do. My heart hurt so bad. I say hurtful things in a blunt way and he is just over it. We are back and forth. We both share a 5 planet stellium; Mercury, Venus, Mars, Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn. I don’t know if I should leave him alone completely. He rebels when I try to get to know him cuz of how much I want to know him and I want to love him and merge with him on every level, Scorpio stuff. I know it’s stupid but I wish he could stop being resistant and stubborn and allow me to love him, that’s how I am when I am not sure about something too. What do I do?
Hi Cari,
There is nothing wrong with you. You cannot let him go because your mind still comprehends that you still have a chance with him and make it work. The best thing you can do is allow time to yourself and realize that no one is responsible for your happiness than you. Time is precious. If he is not there, it doesn’t matter why. He is not. If you invested in someone who wasn’t good for you, imagine how amazing will it be with the right one. This is a good opportunity to work on yourself.
Sincere
Hi I’m trying to figure out how I can properly fix the situation with my Capricorn man, we had set Valentine’s Day plan’s together and the day of Valentine’s my mother had a severe heart attack (she’s recovering very well by the way). I tried explaining to him why I couldn’t make it and his response was, “I don’t want to hear anymore excuses from you you’ve wasted my time I could’ve been doing something else.” He didn’t leave me or anything which surprised me I apologized to him profusely tried to explain to him why I couldn’t make it, even planned a date to make up for missing Valentine’s Day but he refused, I told him I’d give him space and he stopped talking to me for an entire week. So I texted him first he said he was over the situation but I truly feel like he’s not. Now I will be honest there has been other times we’ve made plans and I’ve had to cancel because of family, and he knows that though, but if it truly upset him that much then I’d rather him talk it out with me than pretending it’s not hurting him. Now he’s giving me the cold shoulder and not speaking to me after he said he wanted to work on our communication towards one another which I agreed to, but I feel like now I’m the only one putting in the effort while he’s watching me run around in circles like an idiot. I don’t know how long I can keep saying, “I’m sorry.” And planning trips for us to bond together and take him out on dates that he keeps refusing. I’m considering ending the relationship at this point but I’m trying to give it a chance
Hi Yemmi,
If you have the patience, if you have the will, if you have the love.
A relationship isn’t meant to be perfect. Like I say to many people, fail over and over until you get it right. Don’t fear failing. The only time when you should let go is when someone stops caring to try. That’s when it’s no longer in your control.
If you love this person deeply and have been struggling without them and find that the goods are starting to outweigh the bad, your Love was probably just overshadowed by negativity. If having that love again is worth it to you then that relationship is worth trying again.
People don’t often realize until it’s way too late that they could of done something differently and they let a good thing get away. I say live and love until you can’t anymore. Then you both can mutually agree it’s for the best or even better it could turn out being the best decision you made was to not commit to giving up.
Giving up and running away from problems is different than trying until you’re all out of options. Do you want to down the road ask what if? When you had the chance to answer all of that by riding out your current emotions? I think the fact that you’re asking you’re already in that stage like what if you don’t get the chance again, well if you don’t take it now, it’s a greater chance you won’t have that chance again. And a lot of people don’t realize that until that chance is gone. You can be afraid of how it might turn out or experience and find out instead of asking yourself down the road what if.
Best of luck, regardless it will be a gain.
Go with your heart AND your mind.
Hello,
I’ve been casually seeing a Capricorn man for a few months.
One time he disappeared on me for 2 weeks. During that time, I did go crazy and I was a mess but stayed strong and didn’t chase. Eventually he came back and there wasn’t even an apology. Just said he had been keeping a low profile because he had a heart scan coming up but he was free to meet after that. Things seemed ok after that. Then this week he said he had a heart procedure which he had waited so long for. The day after, I texted him asking him how he was feeling. He was really angry as the heart procedure didn’t work and may have to go back into hospital. I was gutted for him but told him to let me know if he needed anything or if I can do anything.
I’m guessing he will disappear again for 2 weeks and not a single word from him?
Do Capricorn mem do this when we they get angry? I understand he isn’t angry at me but just angry with the hospital etc.
Thanks!
Hi Natasha,
Generally they don’t express much, But it gets accumulated. When they think it has reached the saturation level, they take the path of “apathy and silence”.
Dealing with Cappy’s anger isn’t easy. When he’s mad he will be very quiet and his facial expression can tell very clearly. All u need to do is let him be. Give him some time and space to reflect, don’t argue with him at that point of time.
If it’s something very serious and they’re deeply hurt it’s difficult to say
Capricorn’s in general cannot forgive if they are backstabbed or mistrusted but if they love u very much and you sincerely apologize giving all the reasons and explanations they’ll try to understand you’re point of view.
Sincere
My story is a complicated one. We started out as f*** buddies. I’m a Libra female, and he’s a Capricorn man. It was that mystery that attracted me to him. But after months and months of me driving over to his home that’s over 2 hours away just to be with them, I demanded that he told me what we were. He said we were whatever title I needed us to be. So I said we were dating. We’ve been dating for 8 months now. And we finally got into our first argument. Because I fell in love with him but he never said he felt the same way. I was in a terrible accident, and he stayed with me through the hospital. But he’s so distant that it’s hard for me to feel how much he cares about me. He obviously cares because he drove to the hospital with met the night with me. He’s made time for me and adjust to his schedule multiple times. But he won’t ever tell me how he feels. Even after we’ve had the argument he hasn’t told me how he felt. At Max he lashed out and then locked himself away. And I’m panicking. I don’t want to lose my Capricorn. Am I being stupid for waiting for him to love say he loves me too? Should I take him being cold after our argument as a sign that he doesn’t want to be with me anymore?
Hi Raise,
Capricorns sometimes get too overwhelmed with everything that’s going on. Capricorns are really busy people and are workaholics . Sometimes they need space and like to think over everything , reflect and plan out their next moves. Like me, when I get to overwhelmed , I shut myself out from the outside world and I don’t talk to anyone , go to someplace where there’s no one to bother me when I’m thinking. Never approach a Capricorn when they pull away, because they might snap at you and tell you to go away. You need to give Capricorns space, and do not suffocate them because they might never come back. That is why you Capricorn might be pulling away, because maybe you are suffocating them and not giving them alone time, or they are to overwhelmed. You need to understand that Capricorns equal mountain goats. They are slow thinkers and they enjoy their alone time . So, if your Capricorn is pulling away, it’s probably one of those reasons or maybe you have hurt them.
Sincere
I thought this article was awesome, and really well written. The part of it that I thought was really awful with how it came across quite sexist to me. Why was nothing about the Capricorn woman included? I was hoping to find information here regarding a very specific person who did not happen to be a man, and I was very disappointed to see that all of the additional information was for in regarding men. Pretty lame. Great writing, but not well-rounded.
Hi,
So, after a while together he proposed. Months later he broke it off, but in a very angry way. I don’t understand why he was so angry.
Hi LinBeth,
If you want advice…give his ring back. If he didn’t propose with a ring then he wasn’t serious. If you love him and think that he is The One, then be sweet and gentle but firm. Insist on a year of pre-marital counseling. This can be a weekly meeting with a church program or with your /his parents, or with a series to successful couples who will ask you both the hard questions and insist on thought out answers. You’ll learn a lot about yourselves, each other, and about marriage in that year. You’ll also learn how committed he is, if he quits counseling. You don’t want to end up tied in marriage to a spoiled child. Divorce is never, never easy and it can break your lives. You can grow and you can heal afterwards, but you can’t take back those years and the scars are always present.
You have a concept of what love is, and you are assuming that he has the same concept. You think that his concept of commitment is the same as yours. Maybe. I’ll give you one last piece of advice…don’t listen to what people say, look at their actions.
Sincere
It’s just a week I met her but it feels like I knew her for years… I don’t know why, after a very big incident I finally met her I guess fell in love once again. But I called her girl… and she got angry for some reason I don’t get why…I apologized but she is totally ignoring me……please help me what I should do to melt her heart. I need her she is just more than perfect
Hi Hasib,
When a woman is mad at you, the last thing that she wants from you to do is calm down, relax and explain why she is feeling that way.
When a guy is faced with an angry girlfriend that he truly loves, it’s only natural that he will want to apologize to her and make things right.
Another thing you can do is that try to trick your girlfriend into forgetting why she’s mad at him, by distracting her with gifts, promises and other surprises.
P.S: Your girlfriend wants to feel like you’re the kind of man that she can look up to and respect, lean on and rely on. She wants to see that you can lead her out of a tantrum or bad mood by getting her laughing and smiling, making light of the situation or being assertive in a loving way.
So always remember she loves you and it’s your duty to make her normal from being angry rather than you also getting angry.
Sincere
oh my god! this is the best ever website abt cappy men!! i so appreciate your all info and personal replies to each situation!
so im w an older cap man, been 8yrs+, and raising a child together. im reading through the stories in the comments, and it only makes me super furious – how the hell to not be frustrated being their second half??!! as if i have no emotions, no needs and only gotta see how not to hurt this guy and stay in line w his ‘alone time’ and secretive ways!!??
im truly so fed up. we have frequent conflicts, coz of MY needs unmet, or met after a super energy consuming, raw and tearful night talks…. sheesh … feels so difficult…:( not quite sure how to help myself..
im a cancer sun and cancer moon lady.
Hi dear,
Fill yourself with love. Believe that you are a confident 19 year old lady who can have anything she wants. You do not have to beg for attention from anyone. Work out, look good,chase your passion and think good things about yourself and let people come to you . Find a way to do all of these and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Believe that you deserve all this and have faith that nothing is beyond your reach.Love yourself the most.
Sincere
hey, before attacking this guy, why dont you first ask politely abt such choice of his.